Dekhi Zamane Ki Yaari Bichhde Sabhi Bari Bari

Ever heard the saying, "Dekhi Zamane Ki Yaari, Bichhde Sabhi Bari Bari"? It basically translates to, "Witnessed the friendships of this world, everyone parts ways one by one." Sounds a bit gloomy, right? But hold on, let's not turn this into a tearjerker! Let's explore this idea with a little humor and a lot of real-life examples.

Think about your school days. Remember that super-tight group you had? You swore you'd all be best friends forever, sharing secrets and conquering the world together? Fast forward a few years, and well, you're lucky if you remember their birthdays.

Life just happens, doesn't it? Everyone moves on, in their own time.

The Great Graduation Departure

Graduation is like the starting gun for the "Bichhde Sabhi Bari Bari" marathon. People scatter to different corners of the earth, chasing dreams (or sometimes just dodging student loan payments). Your college buddies who were practically glued to your hip suddenly become distant faces on social media.

You see their vacation pictures in Bali, their new jobs in Silicon Valley, and their oh-so-perfect avocado toast. You think, "Remember that time we ate ramen noodles in the library at 3 AM?" Nostalgia hits hard, followed by a gentle wave of "Good for them!".

That's life, folks! It is like a well deserved holiday from your college besties.

The Workplace Wanderlust

Even work friendships, forged in the fires of endless meetings and shared coffee breaks, aren't immune. Someone gets a promotion, someone elopes, someone decides to open a llama farm in Peru. And poof! They're gone.

Remember Rahul, your office confidant who always knew the perfect meme to share? Now he's the CEO of a startup in Singapore. You are probably sending him a Congratulations email!

It's all part of the grand tapestry of life. Weave in and weave out!

The Neighborhood Shuffle

Remember Mrs. Sharma, who always had the best gossip and the most delicious samosas? She moved to be closer to her grandkids. And Mr. Khan, your cricket buddy from across the street? He retired and now spends his days fishing in Florida.

Even your trusty neighborhood relationships are prone to change. Houses get sold, families grow, and people find new corners of the world to call home.

And you are left thinking, "Who will give me weekly samosa updates?!". The answer is probably no one.

The Digital Delusion

Social media, that supposed connector of people, can sometimes highlight the "Bichhde Sabhi Bari Bari" phenomenon. You see old friends connecting with *other* old friends, having inside jokes you're no longer privy to.

It's like being an extra in a movie you used to star in. You are happy they are having fun without you.

The key is not to let it get you down. Embrace the ever-changing landscape of relationships. Understand that it is just how the world works.

So, What's the Point?

Does all this mean friendships are fleeting and meaningless? Absolutely not! It means relationships evolve. People grow and change. Life takes us on different paths.

The important thing is to cherish the moments you have with people, while you have them. Value those connections, even if they're brief.

And remember, while some friendships fade, others deepen and endure. The ones that stick around? Those are the real treasures. They might be few, but they are definitely worth it.

So, next time you hear "Dekhi Zamane Ki Yaari, Bichhde Sabhi Bari Bari", don't sigh in despair. Smile, remember the good times, and get ready to make some new friends! The adventure continues!