How To Do A High Bun On Natural Hair

The Quest for the Perfect Natural Hair Bun (It's a Jungle Out There!)

Let's be real. We've all been there. Staring into the mirror, armed with a hair tie and a dream.

A dream of a sleek, gravity-defying bun. A bun that says, "I woke up like this…fabulous!" Except, reality often bites.

Step One: The Gathering

First, you need the weapons. A good brush or wide-tooth comb is crucial.

Hair ties? You'll need approximately 72. Because one always breaks. Always.

And don't forget the edge control. This is war, people!

Step Two: The Upward Struggle

Now, the fun begins! Gathering your hair towards the sky. Aim for somewhere between "slightly above the ears" and "definitely scraping your forehead."

This is where the arm workout starts. Feel the burn! Embrace the pain!

Smooth it. Smooth it more. Why is there always that one rebellious strand? Seriously?

Step Three: The Twist and Shout (and Probably Some Swearing)

Twist! Coil! Wrap! These are your mantras now. Repeat them until you believe them.

Pin it, tuck it, hope for the best. This part is a chaotic dance between you and your hair.

And yes, strategically placed bobby pins are your best friends. Hide those unruly ends!

Step Four: Edge Control: The Final Frontier

Okay, baby hairs. It's your time to shine! Or, you know, lay flat and cooperate.

A little edge control goes a long way. Unless you're like me, and then you need a whole jar.

Use a toothbrush (dedicated solely to this purpose, obviously) to sculpt those edges into submission.

Step Five: The Mirror Test (and the Inevitable Re-Do)

Stand back. Admire your handiwork. Critically assess every angle.

Is it lopsided? Are there random bumps? Does it look like a bird built a nest on your head?

Don't worry. Just take it down and start over. We've all been there. Many, many times.

My Unpopular Opinion: Embrace the Mess!

Here's the thing: perfect is overrated. Seriously. Who even has time for that?

A slightly messy bun? It's chic! It's effortless! It says, "I'm too busy being awesome to worry about every single strand!"

So, embrace the flyaways! Rock the slight asymmetry! Own that beautifully imperfect bun!

The Secret Ingredient: Confidence

The most important thing is to wear that bun with confidence.

Because honestly, who cares if it's not "perfect"?

You're rocking a gorgeous, natural hairstyle. And that's all that matters.

Bonus Tip: Blame the Weather

If all else fails, blame the humidity. It's a universally accepted excuse.

"My bun is a little wonky today, the humidity is crazy!". Instant credibility!

Now go forth and conquer the world, one slightly messy, beautifully natural bun at a time!

And remember, even Beyoncé probably has bad hair days (allegedly!).