Songs To Dance With Step Dad At Wedding

Okay, let's talk wedding dances. Specifically, the stepdad dance. It's a minefield, right?

Not as fraught as the first dance, maybe. But still! Picking the right song is crucial.

The "Safe" Zone: Sentimental But...Meh?

You'll see a lot of recommendations for stuff like "You Are the Sunshine of My Life." It's sweet. So sweet, it might give you a cavity.

Or maybe "What a Wonderful World." Classic. Safe. Predictable.

Honestly, these songs are great... for someone else's wedding. I need something with a bit more personality!

Unpopular Opinion Alert!

Here's where I might lose some of you. But hear me out. I think some stepdad dances should be...fun!

Forget the slow, tear-jerking ballads. Let's get a little goofy!

Why not embrace the fact that this isn't your biological dad? Inject some humor!

Songs That Say "Thanks for Not Being A Total Jerk" (With a Smile)

I'm kidding! Mostly. But seriously, a playful song can be a great way to acknowledge the unique relationship.

Consider something like "You've Got a Friend in Me" from Toy Story. It's cute. It's fun.

It says, "Hey, we're pals!" without getting all weepy.

Or maybe "Better Together" by Jack Johnson. It's upbeat and expresses togetherness.

Plus, who doesn't love Jack Johnson? Okay, maybe some people, but let's not dwell on them.

The "He Actually Raised Me" Exception

Of course, if your stepdad has been your father figure since you were tiny, the rules change.

In that case, a more traditional, heartfelt song is totally appropriate.

Think something like "My Wish" by Rascal Flatts. Warning: prepare for waterworks!

Songs To Avoid At All Costs

Here's a public service announcement: avoid anything overtly romantic. Like, seriously avoid it.

No "I Loved Her First," no "Daddy's Little Girl." It's just...creepy.

Also, steer clear of anything too suggestive or raunchy. Even if you have a *very* cool stepdad.

Unless you’re aiming for the most memorable (and awkward) wedding ever. In that case, go wild. But don't say I didn't warn you.

The Ultimate Test: The Stepdad Veto

The most important thing? Talk to your stepdad! It's *his* dance too.

Run your song choices by him. Make sure he's comfortable.

His input is crucial. After all, you don't want him to bolt for the buffet mid-dance.

Ultimately, the perfect song is the one that best reflects your relationship with your stepdad. Fun or sentimental, just make it genuine.

And maybe have a backup plan. Just in case. You never know when Macarena fever might strike.

Good luck, and happy dancing!