Songs To Play At A Funeral For Mom

Okay, let's talk funeral playlists. Specifically, the playlist for Mom. We're ditching the sad violin, right?

The "Definitely Don't" List

First, anything by Adele. I said it. Too much sobbing. No one needs that level of waterworks.

And absolutely no opera. Unless Mom was secretly a Viking soprano, hard pass. Let's keep it real, folks.

Oh, and anything that sounds like whale song. Please. Just...no.

Songs That Might Surprise You (In a Good Way)

How about "Walking on Sunshine" by Katrina & The Waves? Hear me out. It's upbeat. It's ridiculously catchy. It's... celebratory?

My mom loved to dance! So, maybe a little ABBA? "Dancing Queen" could be a surprisingly sweet tribute. Picture her twirling in her kitchen.

Or, consider a song that reflects Mom's personality. Was she a bit of a rebel? Maybe a touch of Joan Jett? Just a thought.

Remember that time Mom tried to learn the electric guitar? Good times! A little Def Leppard wouldn't hurt, right?

The "Seriously, Consider These" Category

A classic like "Here Comes the Sun" by The Beatles. Always a winner. It's hopeful. It's familiar. It screams springtime.

"What a Wonderful World" by Louis Armstrong. Obvious? Maybe. But undeniable. Plus, everyone knows the words!

And what about a song FROM her era? Something that reminds everyone of her in her prime. Like a Motown classic or a hit from the 80s.

Think Outside The Box (But Not TOO Far)

Did Mom have a favorite movie? Snag a song from the soundtrack. Bonus points if it's something totally unexpected like a Disney movie.

Or, what about a song that reminds you of a specific memory with her? A silly road trip song. Or that one song that always played at family cookouts.

Was your mom a huge fan of a certain artist? Play her favorite song from that artist. Simple and effective.

Think about her hobbies. Did she love gardening? Something nature-y! Did she love to cook? A song with a food reference!

Consider something instrumental. A beautiful piano piece. A calming guitar solo. Let the music speak.

The Unpopular Opinion Corner

I'm going to say it: "My Heart Will Go On" is overdone. Let's retire Celine Dion from funerals, shall we?

And while we're at it, no bagpipes. Unless Mom specifically requested bagpipes. I'm standing my ground on this one.

Finally, and this is a big one, avoid songs that are explicitly about death. We know she's gone. We don't need a lyrical reminder every three minutes.

The Final Word

Ultimately, the best funeral songs for Mom are the ones that celebrate her life. It is about what she loved. What made her smile. What made her, her.

So, ditch the dreary dirges and crank up the tunes that make you think of her with a smile (and maybe even a little giggle).

After all, she wouldn't want us moping around. She'd want us to have a dance party! Or, at least, tap our feet a little.

Just remember to check with your family about the songs you choose.

And remember, it is okay to laugh, cry, and smile.

It's her party, even if she can't be there. Make it a good one!