Wow Old Colleagues How To Get On Ship
So, you're thinking about reconnecting with those amazing people you used to work with? Fantastic! It's like unearthing a treasure chest of shared memories and potential for new adventures.
Here's how to dust off those connections and get back on the ship (metaphorically speaking, unless you actually worked on a cruise liner, then even better!).
Step 1: The Digital Dig
First things first, time for some light stalking... I mean, strategic research! LinkedIn is your best friend here.
Seriously, type in their name and see what they're up to. Are they still in the same field? Did they start a llama farm? All valuable intel!
Don't forget Facebook, Twitter (or X, as it is now), and even Instagram. Just be cool, don't like every single post from the last decade.
Step 2: The Gentle Nudge
Okay, you've got your data. Now comes the art of the casual reach-out. No desperate pleas for a job, just a friendly hello.
Think about something specific you remember about them. "Hey Sarah, remember that time we accidentally set off the fire alarm with the microwave popcorn? Good times!" A little humor goes a long way.
Keep it short, sweet, and to the point. "Just wanted to see what you're up to these days!" is a classic for a reason.
Crafting the Perfect Message
Personalization is key. Avoid generic "Dear Sir/Madam" nonsense. Use their name, show you remember them as individuals.
If you’re on LinkedIn, you can say something like, "Saw you're working at Acme Corp! I always admired your project management skills when we were at Globex."
End with a question that encourages a response. "How's the llama farming going?" (If applicable, of course. Substituted with “How’s the new role going?” in normal circumstances).
Step 3: The Conversation Flow
Alright, they responded! Congratulations! Now, don't launch into a monologue about your life story. Treat it like a normal conversation.
Ask about them, listen attentively (or read attentively, in this case), and share relevant updates about yourself.
If you are in transition, it is okay to gently mention you're exploring new opportunities, but don't make the entire conversation about that. No one likes a networking vampire.
The Coffee (or Virtual Coffee) Date
If the conversation is flowing, suggest a quick catch-up. "Would love to grab a coffee sometime and hear more about Acme Corp."
If they're remote, offer a virtual coffee date. Zoom is your friend. Just make sure you’re not still in your pajamas.
Step 4: The Follow-Up (But Not *Too* Much)
After your coffee (or virtual coffee), send a quick thank you note. "Thanks again for taking the time to chat, John! Really enjoyed catching up."
If they offered any advice or leads, acknowledge it specifically. "I'm going to check out that book you recommended on llama grooming."
Now, here's the crucial part: Don't become a stage five clinger. If they don't respond, let it go. People are busy.
Remember: It's a Two-Way Street
Networking isn't just about what you can get. It's about building relationships and offering value.
Think about what you can offer them. Maybe you have expertise in a certain area, or you know someone who could be helpful.
So, go forth and reconnect! You never know what amazing opportunities might be waiting just around the corner. Good luck getting back on that ship! You got this!
