A Thing Isn T Beautiful Because It Lasts

Okay, let's talk about something that's been bugging me. This whole idea that beauty is about *lasting forever*. Seriously, who came up with that?

The Myth of Everlasting Beauty

Think about it. We're constantly told that things are more valuable, more beautiful, if they’re old, sturdy, and meant to withstand the test of time. Like an antique chair that no one is allowed to sit on. Or a "forever" diamond engagement ring that costs more than a small car.

But I say, bah humbug!

Chasing Perfection (and Missing the Point)

We spend so much time trying to preserve things, trying to make them last. We slather on anti-aging cream (guilty!), we meticulously polish our furniture, and we baby our cars. All in the name of... what, exactly? Avoiding the inevitable?

The problem is, by focusing solely on longevity, we're completely missing the point. We're forgetting to appreciate the beauty that exists *in the moment.*

Consider the fleeting beauty of a sunset. No one expects a sunset to last all day! That's precisely why it's so breathtaking.

The Joys of the Ephemeral

Think about your favorite ice cream cone on a hot summer day. Is it beautiful because it lasts? Nope! It's beautiful because it's delicious, refreshing, and brings you pure, unadulterated joy *right now.*

The same goes for fireworks. A cherry blossom. A perfectly ripe strawberry. A toddler's first wobbly steps. All these moments are beautiful precisely *because* they're fleeting.

"The most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart." - Helen Keller

Embrace the Impermanence!

So, the next time you find yourself admiring something beautiful, don't worry about how long it will last. Focus on how it makes you *feel* in that moment.

Did you make a sandcastle that got destroyed by the tide? Did your carefully arranged bouquet wilt after a week? Did you wear that awesome outfit that you spilled coffee on? Who cares!

The sandcastle created joy! The flowers brightened up your day! The outfit looked amazing on you and made you feel good!

It's About the Experience, Not the Expiration Date

Life is too short to only appreciate things that are guaranteed to last. Embrace the temporary, the imperfect, the slightly messy. That's where the real beauty lies.

Let's ditch the pressure to preserve everything perfectly. Let's instead focus on creating moments that are beautiful, meaningful, and full of joy.

Because, honestly, who wants to live in a museum anyway?

So go ahead, buy that cheap, sparkly, totally impractical dress. Eat that decadent dessert. Dance in the rain. Don't worry about whether it will last. Just enjoy the ride!

After all, a good memory lasts longer than any diamond, right?

And remember, true beauty isn't about how long something lasts; it's about how brightly it shines while it's here. It's about the joy it brings, the memories it creates, and the way it touches your soul. So, live in the moment and cherish the beauty that surrounds you, no matter how fleeting it may be!