Everybody Ain T Your Friend Everybody Ain T Your Partner

Okay, let's talk real talk. You know that warm, fuzzy feeling you get when you think about your "crew," your "squad," your "posse"? That's great! But hold on a sec…are they *really* all in your corner?

Friend or...Frenemy?

Think of your friends like different flavors of ice cream. Some are your go-to vanilla, always reliable. Others are wild rocky road, fun but maybe a little *too* much sometimes.

But then there are those sherbet flavors. Bright, colorful, and… well, you're just not sure what's going on with them. They might compliment your outfit one minute and "subtly" point out that stain the next!

The "Hype-Man" vs. The "Hand-Wringer"

A real friend is your personal hype person. You got a new job? They're popping confetti! You bombed that audition? They're reminding you of all your other amazing talents.

Then there's the "hand-wringer." You tell them your dreams, and they immediately launch into a five-minute lecture on *why* it's impossible. Bless their hearts, but sometimes you need a cheerleader, not a Debbie Downer.

Remember: Genuine friends celebrate your wins and offer a shoulder to cry on during the losses. Pay attention to who shows up when things get tough.

Partnerships: More Than Just Netflix and Chill

Now, let's move onto the romantic realm. Finding a partner is like finding the perfect pair of socks. They gotta be comfy, keep you warm, and ideally, not have any holes.

But just because someone *says* they want to be your other half, doesn't mean they're ready to put in the work. It's not all hearts and roses, folks. Sometimes it's about doing the dishes *even when* you really don't want to.

The "Project" vs. The "Partner"

A partner should be someone you can build with, not someone you're constantly trying to fix. Are you constantly feeling like you are their therapist, personal chef, and life coach, all rolled into one?

That's a project, not a partnership! A true partner lifts you up, supports your goals, and brings something positive to the table. It's a two-way street, baby!

Think of it this way: are you building a house together, or are you single-handedly renovating a dilapidated shack while they sit on the porch drinking lemonade? (And not offering you any!)

Don't confuse lust or loneliness with genuine compatibility. Run, don’t walk away from the latter scenario!

It’s easy to fall into situationships, but at some point in life we should all be aspiring to a relationship.

Trust Your Gut (and Your Girlfriends)

Your intuition is a powerful thing. If something feels off, it probably is. And don't underestimate the wisdom of your close circle. They see things you might be too caught up to notice.

Listen to your gut and *trust* your inner voice, when it warns you about people who are not truly good for you. And listen to your friends.

Remember: You deserve friends and partners who bring joy, support, and good vibes into your life. Don't settle for less! Cut off toxic relationship.

Surround yourself with people who genuinely want to see you shine. Life's too short for fake friends and half-hearted relationships. So go out there, choose wisely, and create a tribe that's as awesome as you are!