That's My Bestfriend Not My Girlfriend Lyrics

Okay, let's talk about something kinda…annoying. You know that song? The one that gets stuck in your head? The one with the lyrics: "That's my bestfriend, not my girlfriend!"

Yeah, that one. I have some thoughts. Maybe some unpopular thoughts. But thoughts nonetheless!

The Perpetual Friend Zone Anthem

It's everywhere! On the radio. In TikToks. Blasting from passing cars. This song is basically the official anthem of the Friend Zone Olympics.

And look, I get it. Platonic relationships are important. But sometimes…sometimes it feels like overkill.

"Just a Friend"...Sure, Jan

Let's be real. How many times have you heard someone say "She's just a friend" and then BAM! They're dating a month later? Happens all the time!

It's like they're trying to convince themselves more than anyone else. “Nope! No romantic feelings here! Just… friendly feelings. Intense, slightly obsessive, but definitely friendly feelings!"

Maybe I'm cynical. Maybe I've seen too many rom-coms. But I'm sensing some unresolved tension.

The Lyrics: A Breakdown (Kinda)

Think about the lyrics. It’s usually a dude singing, right? And he’s practically screaming: “That’s my bestfriend, NOT my girlfriend!”

The intensity! It's like he's warding off evil spirits. Or maybe, just maybe, he's warding off his own feelings.

And the "best friend" in question is usually gorgeous, funny, and supportive. Basically, wife material.

Is It Just Me, Or...?

Am I the only one who thinks it sounds a little defensive? Like he's trying to shut down any possibility before it even begins?

Maybe he's afraid of ruining the friendship. Totally valid. But also… maybe he's missing out on something great!

Or, worse, maybe he's leading her on. Maintaining the 'best friend' status while secretly enjoying the attention. Ouch.

The Unspoken Truth (Maybe)

Here's my hot take: Sometimes, "That's my bestfriend, not my girlfriend" means "I'm terrified of commitment."

Or, "I'm not sure if she likes me back." Or even, "I'm enjoying the benefits of a relationship without the label."

I know, I know. Harsh. But think about it! It's a convenient excuse. A shield against vulnerability.

The Potential for More

I'm not saying every "best friend" situation is secretly romantic. Some friendships are genuinely platonic and awesome.

But if you're constantly singing (or shouting) "That's my bestfriend, not my girlfriend," maybe it's time to examine your feelings.

Maybe…just maybe…there's something more there. And maybe, just maybe, it's worth exploring. Or not! Who am I to judge? Just a random internet person with strong opinions.

My Final (Probably Wrong) Conclusion

Look, I'm not trying to ruin any friendships. I just think that sometimes, this song is a little… disingenuous. Or, at least, complicated.

It's a catchy tune, sure. But next time you hear it, listen closely. Is it a celebration of platonic love? Or a cry for help from the Friend Zone?

Ultimately, the answer is probably somewhere in between. But hey, that's just my opinion. What do I know? I'm just sitting here, overanalyzing song lyrics. Don't @ me.

I'm just saying, someone should write a song called "That's my girlfriend, and also my best friend." Now that's what I call progress.