Your Path Is More Difficult Because Your Calling Is Higher

For many, the road to achieving a deeply felt purpose is fraught with obstacles seemingly insurmountable. New research and anecdotal evidence suggest that the very intensity of one's calling may paradoxically correlate with the severity of challenges faced.

The concept, while not a universally accepted tenet, resonates with individuals across various fields who report increased difficulty in pursuing goals they perceive as integral to their personal identities and values. The struggles encompass financial instability, social opposition, internal doubts, and systemic barriers.

The Paradox of Purpose

Dr. Anya Sharma, a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley, recently published a study examining the correlation between perceived calling and reported difficulty in achieving related goals. According to Dr. Sharma's research, individuals with a strong sense of purpose are more likely to persist in the face of adversity, but also more likely to encounter significant hurdles early on.

“Our findings indicate that those who identify a strong calling are often drawn to fields or causes that challenge the status quo,” Dr. Sharma stated in a press release. “This inherent friction can lead to increased resistance and difficulty.”

The study, published in the Journal of Applied Psychology, surveyed over 500 individuals across various professions and backgrounds. Participants rated the strength of their perceived calling and the degree of difficulty they faced in pursuing it.

Financial Strain and Sacrifice

One recurring theme among the surveyed individuals was financial hardship. Many reported leaving more lucrative careers to pursue paths aligned with their calling, resulting in a significant decrease in income.

Sarah Chen, a former corporate lawyer who now runs a non-profit organization dedicated to environmental conservation, shared her experience. "I left a six-figure salary to start this organization," she said. "There are days when I struggle to pay my own bills, but the work is so vital, I can’t imagine doing anything else."

Social Opposition and Skepticism

Furthermore, many individuals pursuing unconventional paths report facing skepticism and resistance from family, friends, and colleagues. This social opposition can be a significant source of stress and self-doubt.

David Lee, an artist who uses his work to raise awareness about social justice issues, described the challenges of being taken seriously. "People often dismiss my art as naive or idealistic," he explained. "It's difficult to stay motivated when you constantly encounter negativity."

Internal Doubts and Uncertainty

The path to fulfilling a calling is rarely linear or predictable, and the uncertainty can lead to internal doubts and anxieties. Individuals may question their skills, their worth, and even the validity of their calling.

This feeling is natural, according to Dr. Sharma. “Self-doubt is common, but it shouldn't be confused with a lack of talent or a misguided calling.”

"The key is to recognize these challenges as part of the process," Dr. Sharma adds. "Persistence, resilience, and a strong support network are essential for navigating the difficult path towards fulfilling one's purpose."

Ultimately, while the road to fulfilling a calling may be paved with obstacles, the potential rewards – personal fulfillment, societal impact, and a sense of meaning – can outweigh the challenges.

Understanding that difficulty may be an inherent part of the process can help individuals persevere and navigate the inevitable setbacks that arise. The belief that a higher calling necessitates a steeper climb offers a framework for resilience and a renewed commitment to one's deepest values.